If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. I have to say that reading this is exactly what I needed today. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old.

I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises. Right now she won't even watch a movie. The church can be a very cruel place for single people.
I get a lot of satisfaction out of being a paramedic and my business is a long time dream. Not the end of the world. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS. Love does a lot. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. This sub is a great place to do that. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. He knows how I feel about spending time together. We're giving it to you straight because we hope to help you avoid the heartache many of us have experience due to the harmful teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Being the first in his family to make it, he now supports the lives of those who didn't.