Kids who are getting high, stealing, shoplifting, and acting out are making bad choices that may affect them for the rest of their lives. If your child is making these bad choices, it needs to change. But, unless something dramatic happens, people stay on the course they set during adolescence. Make no mistake, this is not a phase. I tell parents who blame themselves to cut it out. The next step is to try to get your child in a position where he becomes willing to take responsibility for his behavior. I think the best thing to do is say:. And then leave the room. Give your child a verbal reprimand right there on the spot, and then go. You can say:.
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1. Stop Blaming Yourself for Your Child’s Behavior
Maci Bookout gave it the old college try, but ultimately had to tap out of Naked and Afraid after just one night. The Teen Mom OG star was supposed to spend two weeks in the jungles of Nicaragua, honing her survival skills sans any tools, food, or even clothes. Before going on the show, Maci said that she was annoyed at the participants who tapped out at the first sign of discomfort or trial, rather than sticking it out. She explained, "When I watch this show the one thing that drives me crazy is people quit way too early. Like, they don't even give themselves a chance. The first sign of distress, they tap out, like, they're done I mean, it's going to suck , for sure, but I'm not going to quit. While walking through the jungle to find a place to make camp, Maci stepped on some nasty looking thorns, and her partner Justin ended up carrying her because her feet hurt so badly.
What some may view as a lack of parenting, is what I deem parenting on purpose, as we work to build necessary life skills in our kids. My foursome has been expected to get themselves up on early school mornings since they started middle school. There are days one will come racing out with only a few minutes to spare before they have to be out the door. I heard a Mom actually voice out loud that her teen sons were just so cute still, that she loved going in and waking them up every morning. Please stop. I find my sons just as adorable as you do, but our goal is to raise well-functioning adults here. My morning alarm is the sound of the kids clanging cereal bowls. My job is to make sure there is food in the house so that they can eat breakfast and pack a lunch. It will only be a few short years and I will have no idea what they are eating for any of their meals away at college.
